Look around the (online dating) web and you will notice that the
online dating scene is a lot focused on single Russian women and
other East European women. The reason that in particular women
from these countries are looking for a foreign partner is
generally known, but will not be discussed in this article. But
I do like to give you some tips when you must NOT dating or
contacting Russian women.
Let me give you 6 valuable tips:
Tip 1. If you are a single man and you don't want to be single
anymore then you probably already are using the Internet as a
source to find a new partner. But fun dating, chatting and
'playing around' with people from your own culture or country is
something different then being determined to find specific a
Russian woman with the one and only purpose: to marry her. This
means traveling to Russia (to meet her), possible language
barrier, learning about the Russian (women) culture, be prepared
for unexpected situations, like money expenses, possible scam
situations (if you are looking in the wrong places) and many
more. If you are not convinced about yourself that this is all
worth for you, then don't start dating or
contacting Russian
women. A serious looking Russian woman who is a formal member of
a serious established agency has already prepared herself before
she decides to register herself as a possible candidate for
serious looking single men from all over the world. She is not
looking for pen pals or everlasting month's of email
correspondence, no she is looking for a life partner with one
main purpose: to build a happy family.
Tip 2. If you think that register yourself at some dubious free
dating site would be enough to present yourself as a serious
looking single man, who is looking for a serious marriage minded
Russian woman with the expectation that many women will contact
you first, then don't start to find your future Russian wife in
these places, because you will not find them here. These kind of
sites can be fun of course, but are also hotbeds for possible
scammers. Believe me, I have unfortunately a lot of experience
with men who started at the wrong places. Be smart and take a
huge head-start by avoiding these places.
Tip 3. There are people who register themselves in men's
catalogs with photographs as if they are looking like 'Tarzan's'
or
use photo's only wearing swimming shorts, just to impress
young good looking ladies. And write a biography using 3 lines
like "Hello, my name is [name], I am a single man looking for a
young beautiful woman who also likes music, going out, having
fun and drive fast cars, if you are interested, then please
write me back" If you identify yourself with that kind of
persons, then don't contact or try to impress Russian women in
such way. Russian women are not looking for Brad Pitt
look-alikes or muscles like Sylvester Stallone. They are not
judging 'looks' at all, and you will find out why if you take
the trouble to do this the right way.
Tip4. If you think Russian women are looking for any (western)
man just because you think they are looking for a new country, a
better life, a wealthy man, no matter if he is 20 years older
than she is, then please keep on dreaming. They just seek
compatible partners for long term-relationships and marriage and
want to love and be loved, that's all no more, no less!
Tip 5. If you don't have a regular job or (enough) income or
don't have a house/apartment (rent or owned) big enough to live
with a family, or if you
have any serious criminal records (I am
not talking about non paid parking tickets), then don't try to
bring a Russian woman into your country. You will not succeed.
Not because of my personal advise which has nothing to do with
this, but because of the strict regulations, procedures and
rules that are imposed by the authorities when you have the
intention to immigrate a Russian woman into your country. Please
advise the official USCIS website by yourself:
http://uscis.gov/graphics/howdoi/fiance.htm
Tip 6 If you think, that when she finally joins you in your
country, you can start living your 'normal' life again and if
you think she is capable enough to find her own way in your (for
her) strange country, to find at once a job, to teach herself
your language and find by herself new friends and if you think
she should be 'thankful' that you have 'pulled her out' her poor
mafia controlled and corrupted country, then don't start even
thinking about contacting a Russian woman. At least the first
month's she will need extra support from you to settle herself
with you as a 'just married'
husband-and-wife couple and she has
to adjust to your country (customs), your culture, your
language, your friends, your colleague's, your shops, your train
and bus schedule, your etc. and that takes time and patience
from both of you.
But my (western) husband and I can assure you: It's all worth it!
Please do not think I am some weird arrogant Russian woman and
do understand that I am certainly not trying to discourage you
to 'date' Russian women, on the contrary, I only want to give
you some serious tips about the things that really won't work
and if you want to learn more, please visit my website 'Are you
crazy enough to marry a Russian' woman and start reading my
advise chapters: http://www.russian-women-info.com/advise.htm
About the author:
Irina Sbitneva, A Russian woman who owns and operates her
website http://www.russian-women-info.com about finding,
contacting, meeting and marrying a Russian woman. Irina is a
former scientist of the Institute of Immunology in Moscow. In
the millennium year she married her (western) husband.
