A lot of guys have trouble meeting women. They don't know what
to do. This guide offers some basic tips on how to present
yourself and how to act when initiating contact with a girl you
would like to date.
To start with, you should wear nice clothes. They don't have to
be expensive, but look like you care about style and your
appearance. Be creative and try something different.
If you have a nice body don't wear tight shirts. In fact hide
it. Weaning tight clothes makes you look like an idiot,
especially if you're muscular. If you want a tattoo get
one...girls love them.
Style your hair creatively and in a modern way. If you are
balding, shave it off and get a tan. If you are out of
shape,
get in shape. Many women find a shaved head and fit body
attractive especially if you wear it with confidence.
Now you're ready to meet her!
For many men the initial contact is the hardest. It's best to
start simple. Simply say hello. Ask her why she is in a good
mood or bad mood. Get her talking.
If you want to introduce yourself do it with your full name.
Give a nice warm handshake while making good eye contact. After
you get her name try to repeat it several times during your
conversation. Women love the sound of their own name!
Always try to appear confident and in control. Talk to everyone
around you. Try to always be smiling about something. When
talking to her have
good eye contact. Eye contact is crucial.
Talk slowly with good tone. Your body language and posture
should appear relaxed.
Don't bring anyone down. In fact, talk your friends up. Don't
say negative things about yourself or others. Try to lead the
conversation without talking too much. Get her to talk about
herself. Feed off of what she says. Don't brag about yourself.
Don't bring things out about yourself unless you are directly
asked. When you are asked about yourself talk about your life
and plans for your future. Talk about this with lots of
enthusiasm. Also, don't act unusually happy if she says
something nice to you...just say "thanks" with a little smile.
Never appear needy. If you are standing to
some girls at a table
face them with your shoulders out so that way it appears that
you could leave at any moment. If you are in a group talk the
least to the girl you are interested in at first. But later you
will talk to her more and flirt.
Be funny and spontaneous. Make funny comments about the things
going on around you but no canned jokes. Don't be afraid to say
rude (nut crude) things. Not to her just in general.
Lightly compliment her, but be original. So at first don't
compliment her body or her eyes but something about her that is
noticeably different. For example, if she has a wacky hat,
colored hair or whatever talk about those things. Or simply say,
"I like your style".
Finally,
try not to drink too much. Pace yourself when drinking
so you can be in control of what you are doing and saying. And
learn how to dance! It's not that hard. Watch some music videos
and practice until you find a dance style you can do well.
Following these tips will help you improve your dating game.
Remember, by acting confident you will soon become confident. In
no time you'll be making new friends and dating great girls.
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