You've chosen several photos from your online dating service and
sent out your personal online profile. Now you are just waiting
for the replies. You wait for a few days, and nothing. You start
to feel as though you should go back to the bars, at least the
rejection there is face to face. What went wrong?
First of all, these people don't know you, so you can't
realistically take a non answer personally. Very often users of
online dating services have
a stack of profiles next to their PC
and take their time returning emails, so don't get discouraged.
The worst mistake you can make is contacting people over and
over. This can turn them off and give the impression that you
are a stalker, some dating services online will cancel your
membership or censure you if they receive reports of continuous
attempts to contact ( as well they should. Remember, they don't
know your motives any more than you know
anyone else's when
online.)
Another online dating tip is to contact as many people that have
an interesting profile as possible. If you only contact two or
three, and then wait weeks for a reply, of course you're going
to get frustrated, but if you send contact emails to 20
different people, chances are you will receive several replies.
Again, do not take it personally! There are over 100 free online
dating sites to choose from, and those are just the
free ones.
If you are continuously getting rejection emails (I do not mean
no replies, but rather actual rejections) maybe the problem is
your profile. Recheck it and see what it says about you. Is it
honest and sincere? Did you send your best picture? Does it
sound too needy or too non committal? Many dating services
online provide help with putting together the perfect profile,
and this service is usually free, so take advantage of the sites
help
windows, and keep trying!
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