If you have met a beautiful woman who you had your eye on for some time, and you finally got her phone number, then congratulations. However, this is just the beginning and there is still plenty of time to mess it all up. Don’t forget, getting a girl’s phone number certainly does not mean that she is ready ready to date you! Read on to discover the RIGHT way to get her out on a date after you get her number…
Here is what you should do after you have her phone number –
Step One. “Time Your Call”. It is very important you don’t delay things but the same time you shouldn’t call her almost immediately. As a rough guide, it is a good idea to call the within the first 24 hours of receiving the number. However, do not underestimate the importance of timing because you don’t want to come across as uninterested for, on the opposite side, desperate. You need to find the right compromise so to keep up the level of excitement.
Step Two. “Go With The Flow”. Once you do come to calling her, it is very important that you have a few ideas figured out. Make sure that the conversation does not sound rehearsed. This means that you should already have some ideas for what you are going to do and a date already thought up. Try to give her a reasonable number of options and don’t expect her to decide what to do since this is just not going to happen.
Step Three. “Cut It Short”. You should also make the call short. It is very important that you don’t spend too long talking in giving too much away. Try telling her an interesting story about what you did today was something that is relevant to your conversation. However, before you come to the end of the story, make an excuse as to why you have to leave now and that you will find out everything else later. Never under any circumstances, reveal too much.
Here’s one potent addition to Step Three above – use this special ‘jedi’ seduction technique called fractionation. This tactic involves bringing her through an emotional roller coaster in the phone conversation, and in the process get her to be emotionally ‘addicted’ to you. As a result, she will become dependent on you, and will often to anything you ask her to. Amazingly effective, although it is a highly controversial seduction tactic.
But before you use this technique, you must heed this warning… Fractionation is considered as a ‘dark art’ tactic which is the basis of hypnosis-based seduction, and while controversial, it is known to be one of the most effective tactics ever invented by underground seductionists. It is described in a step-by-step system in the Deadly Seduction Manuscript (http://www.DeadlySeduction.com).
So you’ve accomplished something big – you’ve gotten her phone number. However, getting that beautiful woman’s phone number is just the first step for you, now you have to actually call her. There is a process that you can follow for surefire success.
Usually, some men might overdue it while on the phone for the first time with a woman. They try to be too confident and end up sounding arrogant, or flirt too much and end of appearing sleazy. What you must remember is to take things slow, and also to be yourself.
You could either make or break your potential date with this woman by just your phone conversation. There are a few steps you can follow to successfully win over a woman through your phone conversation.
3 Steps on How to Successfully Seduce Women on the Phone
Step 1: Bring the Laughs – Laughter is a great way to break the ice and of course a surefire way to make her feel relaxed with you. You don’t want her to run away screaming after just 5 minutes of talking on the phone with you, so make her laugh a little. It’s a subtle way of putting on the charm.
Step 2: Share a Story – Everybody has a story to tell. Whether it’s a shocking one or a funny one. Stories are a great way to fill in the dead air space when you’re talking on the phone and you’re not quite sure what to talk about. It’s also a way for her to see that you actually are interesting and thought of sharing stories with her that she might like.
You can even keep her guessing by telling her half of the story and saving the rest for your date. That way, she’ll be anticipating your upcoming date.
Step 3: Fractionation – Again, this is the extreme way to go, but it does have results. Fractionation is hypnosis through controlling someone’s emotions. Through you talking to her, she will eventually become emotionally dependent on you and hang on every word you say. You won’t have to worry if you’ll get a date with her – it’s almost a guaranteed thing.
But before you use this technique, you must heed this warning…
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Once you use your charms and flirting techniques to obtain her phone number you will feel like a king of the world. This is not the end of your journey and the next big step will be to call her and set up a date. Guys, pay attention to this part particularly, since at this stage most of you could mess up. Imagine, just going through all the trouble to get her phone number and at the end just waste the chance by making a bad impression over the phone.
The seduction game can drastically change while engaging a phone conversation with a girl. The environment at this point is completely different than if you would be talking to her in real. The first thing, she cannot see you and you can only rely on your verbal abilities to get her in the mood. Second thing, she maybe forgot who you are so you need to remind her where you met and how. If you don’t think you will know exactly what to say and how to make an easy and successful flow of the conversation, here are a few useful tips to help you out.
Three successful phone seduction strategies – Overcome Three Barriers
Technique No.1 – “Make her laugh”. The first barrier will be to engage a successful phone conversation without letting her know that you are nervous, which is easily done just by using humor. At the start you need to be able to get her mood up and get her to LAUGH. If this happens, she won’t hang up the phone on you and the course of the conversation will go to your favor and you’ll most likely be able to set up the first date. The objective of this game is to keep her entertained long enough so you could tell her all you have on your mind.
Technique No.2 – “The Strategy of a Cliffhanger”. The second barrier is connected to the genuine interest. If she seems to be bored with the conversation, be sure that you won’t be able to set up a date and spend time with her. You could let the conversation flow to the direction of a story that will have an open ending, all in the purpose of making her wish she sees you. Curiosity is the key, and it might even happen that she initiates the date if she gets curious enough. Do it slick and like a pro and leave the finale for the end. Girl’s curiosity could be provoked easily, so keep this in mind and use it as an advantage.
Technique No.3 – “Hypnosis”. Wanting to jump-start a relationship with a girl of your choice isn’t enough and you might even consider the help of this advanced technique which will surely give you amazing results. While talking with her, you can already give her an ’emotional ride’ that will leave her breathless by making her feel all these different emotions. This technique, called fractionation, gives an amazing experience and will develop instant attraction from her.
But before you use this technique, you must heed this warning…