What to Do After You Get the Girl’s Number (3 Steps to Phone Seduction Success)

If you have met a beautiful woman who you had your eye on for some time, and you finally got her phone number, then congratulations. However, this is just the beginning and there is still plenty of time to mess it all up. Don’t forget, getting a girl’s phone number certainly does not mean that she is ready ready to date you! Read on to discover the RIGHT way to get her out on a date after you get her number…

Here is what you should do after you have her phone number –

Step One. “Time Your Call”. It is very important you don’t delay things but the same time you shouldn’t call her almost immediately. As a rough guide, it is a good idea to call the within the first 24 hours of receiving the number. However, do not underestimate the importance of timing because you don’t want to come across as uninterested for, on the opposite side, desperate. You need to find the right compromise so to keep up the level of excitement.

Step Two. “Go With The Flow”. Once you do come to calling her, it is very important that you have a few ideas figured out. Make sure that the conversation does not sound rehearsed. This means that you should already have some ideas for what you are going to do and a date already thought up. Try to give her a reasonable number of options and don’t expect her to decide what to do since this is just not going to happen.

Step Three. “Cut It Short”. You should also make the call short. It is very important that you don’t spend too long talking in giving too much away. Try telling her an interesting story about what you did today was something that is relevant to your conversation. However, before you come to the end of the story, make an excuse as to why you have to leave now and that you will find out everything else later. Never under any circumstances, reveal too much.

Here’s one potent addition to Step Three above – use this special ‘jedi’ seduction technique called fractionation. This tactic involves bringing her through an emotional roller coaster in the phone conversation, and in the process get her to be emotionally ‘addicted’ to you. As a result, she will become dependent on you, and will often to anything you ask her to. Amazingly effective, although it is a highly controversial seduction tactic.

But before you use this technique, you must heed this warning… Fractionation is considered as a ‘dark art’ tactic which is the basis of hypnosis-based seduction, and while controversial, it is known to be one of the most effective tactics ever invented by underground seductionists. It is described in a step-by-step system in the Deadly Seduction Manuscript (http://www.DeadlySeduction.com).


How to Eliminate Approach Anxiety Forever and Maximize Your Seduction Success

Talking to a gorgeous woman can be the most intimidating thing a man can do. I’ve known soldiers that flew jet planes and could actually jump out of them on a regular basis, but were afraid to talk to a woman.

Even when they learned how to decode her body language, so they were fairly certain that it would be ok to go over and talk to her, they were still too shy and frozen by so called “approach-anxiety” to make an approach.

One of the reasons for approach anxiety is imagining a negative outcome. Instead of imagining all the wonderful things that can happen by approaching a beautiful woman, they instead imagine being publicly rejected in some horrible way.

What compounds this common problem is that most of this goes on underneath conscious awareness. All of the imaginings of a horrible future happen so quickly and unconsciously that all they feel is that sense of anxiety that seemingly comes immediately after a desire to approach and start a conversation.

The simple way around this is to force yourself to imagine a positive outcome. Your brain is like any other muscle; it will do what you habitually train it to do. If you let your brain go off on it’s own, it will go to the evolutionary programmed mode of self-preservation, making it difficult for you to approach.

Here’s how to change that. When you see a woman, imagine every step of the conversation, in as full and rich detail as you can, and imagine it going perfect, so she leaves with you, and you two have a wild and passionate night of wonderful expressive sex.

Imagine how she responds to your initial icebreaker, imagine her laughing at all your jokes, and imagine her looking at you with that gaze that women reserve only for those special guys in their life.

Imagine how she responds when you touch her arm or shoulder lightly. Imagine how she playful puts her hand on your thigh while you are sitting next to you. Imagine how she looks up at you with those innocent and slightly nervous eyes as you let her into your apartment for the first time.

Whatever you imagine on a regular basis, your brain will start to do automatically. The more you do this, the quicker it will work. And if you practice regularly, going out, finding an attractive woman, and then taking the time to imagine all the wonderful things you’d like to happen, it will become automatic.

Before you know it, approaching and starting conversations with gorgeous women will be automatic. You will enjoy it and look forward to it. And then you can really put your seductive skills to use, and seduce her in that special way that gives her a lifetime of wonderful memories.

Taking the first step is sometimes the hardest for some. Because you can imagine what it will be like when you become successful, you can naturally take advantage of this opportunity. You’ll find out just how easy that is when you visit Powerful Charisma Seduction


Control Your Success, Control Your Mind

Your success is controlled by your thoughts.

Do you have control over your thoughts? Sadly, the vast majority of people don’t.

The quality of the questions you ask yourself and the quality of your answers will dictate the degree of success and fulfillment in your life.

When something goes wrong or you are met with a challenge what thoughts immediately enter your mind? For many, many people they are de-energizing thoughts and questions that sound something like this:

What’s wrong with me?

How come this always happens to me?

Can I avoid being blamed for this?

Why me?

Why do I always/never …?

Am I good enough?”

What if I’m not good enough?

De-energizing questions trap you where you are (or in your history), they tend to be backward focused, defensive, dis-empowering.

If you find yourself guilty of regularly using a repertoire of questions similar to those above, then …

Do this exercise

Grab a piece of paper right now!

Draw a line down the middle of the page and on the left-hand side write down all the benefits you get from this type of thinking.

Now on the right-hand side, write down all the damage that this type of thinking causes you.

So how are these questions serving you? Are these de-energizing questions helping you to move forward in life, toward achieving what you want?

To power-fill your life you need to focus on asking energizing questions. Energizing Questions sound like:

* What can I learn from this situation?

* What is the opportunity here for me?

* How can we all win from this?

* How can I get around this problem?

* What is the end-result I want?

* What will be the benefits if I …?

* How can we best support each other to …?

Energizing Questions are forward moving, forward focused … they send you down a path of looking for solutions that are energizing and empowering.

They have a positive impact on your attitude, energy, feelings and performance.

If you are responsible for leading and/or influencing others then Energizing Questions are a very useful tool. They enable you to inspire people to focus on possibilities rather negativities.

Here are the principles in asking/developing great energizing questions (whether you are using them on yourself or on others):

They are open-ended. Yes/No answers discourage thinking.

They focus on where you are heading, not what went wrong. Yes, you can learn, indeed must learn, from your mistakes and errors, however give your primary focus to where you want to go

They focus on the ‘what’ or the ‘how’ and not ‘why’. Think back to the last time you were asked a ‘why’ question – “Why did you do that?” – did you get defensive, start to back-pedal? As soon as you are asked ‘why’ you tend to feel judged. Instead, ask questions like “Help to understand what lead up to you doing …?”, “How are you planning to …?”; “What is the next step in …?” “What do you want to …?”

If you, or the people around you are, are not being as successful as you want, then Energizing Questions can be a great place for you to start to turn things around.

What you focus on is what you will receive, I promise!

Growth Opportunity

Identify the primary questions you ask of yourself and others – are they Energizing or De-Energizing Questions?

Listen to the questions you hear others around you asking – are they Energizing or De-Energizing Questions?

If they are focused on de-energizing what can you do to help yourself and others to shift your thinking toward more of what you do want, rather than what you don’t want?

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I am sure that on more than one occasion you have noticed some guy who just seems to effortlessly be able to attract women, you then stop and think to yourself what are the secrets of seduction? How could I possibly be successful, even on a first date.

Your mind can be a powerful force that may sometimes tricks you into believing that things are a lot harder than they actually are.

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